It's not easy bringing up a princess-let alone THREE of them! Bekah (born Sept 2004), Maddy (born July 2006), and Isabelle (born Dec 2007), make for a lot of life lessons. Follow me as I teach them, learn from them, and watch them bloom! There are some things we're learning together, but other things, let's just say I'm a bit of a know it all, or so I wish!

Monday, May 16, 2011

Top 10 quirky things / bad habits

By following blogs that have links to other blogs that have links to other blogs, I accidentally found a fun little blog in which the author posted her top 10 quirks and bad habits. From there, I found one that was in French! Thankfully, Google Chrome offered to translate it for me and it was super fun! Hope you enjoy! If you end up posting a Top 10 list, post a link in the comments, I'd love to read it (you know, after I've embarrassed myself)!

1. I crack my knuckles, back, neck, toes (if you can pop it, I will try). My favorite is my thumb. I always want to crack my neck, but then I do and get an instant headache. You think that would teach me, but it doesn't (obviously). Worse yet, if I see someone else do it, I can hardly resist the urge to do it myself. My mom tried to get the doctor to tell me it's bad for me, but he just said it gives the liquid in the joints time to move around (or something weird like that I'd never heard of before or since).
2. I develop really fun hobbies and habits. My most recent ones involve Non-fiction (currently, In a Pit with a Lion on a Snowy Day), pop-up card making (Jamie, one's coming in the mail soon), blogging (creating and following), Oregon Trail on Facebook, homemade cleaning products (I should probably blog about my homemade cleaning supplies), dream journaling (I often dream of being a princess), and Fox News. The quirky part is most of my hobbies only last about a week or two...

3. I love reality television! Current obsessions include Biggest Loser, Survivor, Amazing Race, and the Next Great American Restaurant. I am always waiting for a new season of Dr. Drew's Celebrity Rehab and The Bachelor!
4. I have the sense of humor of a 12 year old boy. I enjoy potty talk and fart jokes! Except when my girls don't know when enough is enough, or when I want the people around me to think I'm a better mother than that!
5. I like to psycho analyze strangers without even talking to them, be it a couple at a table across
the restaurant or a contestant on The Bachelor. Granted, I realize the inaccuracy of such diagnoses, but it's just a hobby). Jillian Michaels does it for me on the Biggest Loser, and Dr. Drew does it for me on Celebrity Rehab. I do not, however, make this a practice with people I hope to befriend (or already have), unless they seriously ask.

6. I love tan lines! I have some on my feet already which I am very proud of. At the same time, I am semi-fanatic about sunscreen. I do not want skin cancer.

7. The shower has the best acoustics for singing opera-ish.

8. I secretly love running, but I am terrible at it. Starting tomorrow, I am training for a 5k using my elliptical trainer. I know I can run 3 miles, but a year ago it took me nearly an hour to do so. This year, I am training for speed (as possible as that is or is not).
9. I LOVE playing with make-up and wearing dresses!
10. Caffeine apparently keeps me up waaaaaay too late! Thank you Dr. Pepper!

Thursday, May 12, 2011

Chasing Lions at Midnight

Why can't I sleep?! Oh well, I have some shows on my DVR to catch up on, so I proceed to try to tire myself that way. I turn the TV off at a semi-reasonable time (after being assured that Olivia and Hannah will be in the final 4 together) and try to get some shut-eye. After about a half hour of tossing and turning, I realize why I cannot sleep. I'm chasing a lion! I've been reading a book by Mark Batterson, In a Pit with a Lion on a Snowy Day. Click here if you want to see the book And darn it if I finally figured out what my lion is, the thing that I've been cautious to pursue! But the chase is on. Once I realize that my lion is fighting back, I'm anxious to get to work in defeating it! I've been (very passively) working with my pastor to set up a counseling practice in our church, allowing me to pursue my counseling passions while still being home with my girls. For some reason, today, I realized there is a lot of work to get done to even be able to get to that point. There are tough questions I don't know the answers to, there are circumstances I'm sure I don't understand, there are risks, and I'm determined to get this lion wrangled. I'm choosing to write about this now, so that I can look back in a year and see what the Lord has done!

By the way, In a Pit with a Lion on a Snowy Day is a life-changing profound (but simple) book that I HIGHLY recommend to anyone wanting to strengthen their spiritual walk. I'm going to have to start reviewing all the books I've been reading (like the girls don't give me enough ammo!)

On another note, it wasn't until an hour after story time on the floor of the public library began, that I realized that Isabelle was not wearing underwear under her frilly Hello Kitty skirt. Geez, how many people noticed it before me?!

Wednesday, May 11, 2011

Naughty on Mother's Day

Mother's Day is so special, maybe because it's a personal holiday, yet publicly shared. I'm not sure why, but my Mother's Day is one I will not soon forget. I woke up to homemade gifts from my girls, and yarn spelling out "MOM LOVES" on my bedroom wall. Super cute. Extra Thoughtful. Great start!
The girls made me crafts during church, explaining what they love best about me.
  • Maddy: "She plays with me. She took me to the carnival with her. She likes to swing with me. She makes cookies with me."
  • Bekah: "She helps me ride my bike. She makes me breakfast. She helps me plant seeds. She lets me cook with her."
  • Izzy colored a cute little cutout that said mom.
I'm thinking what you're thinking at this point, "I'm a great mom!" After lunch, I lie down to nap on the couch. Since it's raining out, the girls retreat to my bedroom to shout across the yard to the neighbor girl in her bedroom. I think this is pretty cute until I hear that a mermaid has "made it out the hole." Upon checking, I find a hole in the screen and the curtain rod shaped like a V. The girls are asked to go clean their room in order to make up for messing up mine. I must say, I have NEVER seen them work so well together and gotten their room clean so fast. Until I hear "Izzy, stop putting pudding on the mirror!" Well darn. The naughtiness continues.

I feed them a quick cheese sandwich and celery, and send them back to their room to do some school work. A little later, I see Bekah's head bound quickly from my room to her own. When I asked why she was in my room, she said it was because she couldn't open the bathroom door, so she went out my room. When I begin our bedtime routine, I find that this is not true. Bekah had been in the bathroom and wanted to leave the door shut because she didn't want me to see that she had done a building project in there with all of our toilet paper. After a quiet chat about honesty and honoring the Lord by honoring our parents, the girls commence a giggly sister slumber party of epic proportions, resulting in yet more consequences.

It took about 24 hours, but now I appreciate the humor of it all. Gosh darn it, it's funny (don't tell the girls I said so)!

Wednesday, May 4, 2011

Explore. Dream. Discover.

"Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you didn't do than the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover"
~~Mark Twain

What things come to mind when you read this? What things are you keeping in the safe harbor?

20 years from now, I don't want to regret that I didn't take more time to kiss boo-boo's, make messy projects, play dress-up, listen to outlandish stories, make more forts, eat crazy foods at silly times, sing lullabies, paint fingernails, have tickle wars, go star-gazing, bike riding, or stop to smell the roses.

No one says to their grown children, "man, I wish I would have spent more time house-keeping." or, "I wish I would have stayed in bed longer/played on facebook/watched TV more." What is so important that I miss opportunities with my girls?!
  • What is so difficult about stopping to hear Bekah explain to me the complexities of how the guinea pig is playing with his chewy toy?
  • Why is it so difficult to pick up a hurt Maddy and just cradle her, sing to her, and make everything okay?
  • Why is it so time consuming to get off the porch to give Izzy an underdog on the swing set?

Being more attentive to my children is something I want to be better at. Afterall, 20 years from
now, I want to be able to say that I did "Explore. Dream. Discover." at every opportunity with my kids! Plus, they are very entertaining and cute!

Seriously take a moment to consider how Twain's comment applies to you in this season of your life...

Saturday, April 30, 2011

The Royal Wedding

With a blog entitled "Bringing Up the Princess," it seems wrong to not mention the Royal Wedding. I recorded the big event on my DVR, but haven't watched it yet. I have, however seen highlights on the news here and there. Watching it with my own little princesses is so much fun! Kate Middleton is living a true life fairy tale. She is beautiful, grounded, poised, charming, and educated. She has met her Prince William Charming, become the Duchess of Cambridge, and is in line to be the next Queen of England, Catherine of Wales. Tell me that doesn't bring out your inner princess, your little girl giddiness! Admit it, it's fun! I pray, Prince William and Catherine, have a happily ever after, a marriage of strength and honor to God.
Now, I'm not going to be naive and believe that Kate and William were pure virgins coming into the wedding day (although that would be cool if they were), but the idea of a royal wedding leads me to think ahead for my girls. After all, their Father is a King--they are royalty! I pray that God would not allow love to wake in their hearts until it is time. That they would find a prince that would honor their relationship with purity (from now until they marry). And that they would have all the things instilled in their marriage (trust, honor to God, respect, love, commitment) that would bring them a happily ever after. I've been reading them this book, a gift from their grandma and grandpa, and I hope they take it to heart.




Wednesday, April 27, 2011

An Easter of Answered Prayers


At Easter Service on Sunday, I had the most glorious worship experience. I allowed my self to just bathe in His glory and be reminded of all the ways He has answered prayers over the past year. This Easter seemed to be the culmination of many of those prayers. Some things I knew, outside of Him, were not possible. Other things, I knew He would bring, but didn't expect it so quickly. This Easter,
  • I felt like not like just an in-law, but like a part of the family.
  • Chuck's step-sister is pregnant! Her husband joined us for Easter dinner (and even performed Easter Bunny duties)!
  • Chuck's parents have settled into a new home, after leaving the house they've spent their whole married lives in. Yet, God has allowed the new home to feel like home!
  • Chuck has gotten a promotion that will financially change our lives, help us pay off bills, and allow us to purchase our first home.
  • My girls are growing to love Jesus more and more!
  • My husband is becoming more and more the man I always knew him to be!
  • My father-in-law coordinated the most amazing Easter carnival for their church. He worked through pain and exhaustion and still reflected Jesus to our family.
  • My best friend is in the midst of finding love after years of healing from heartbreak.
  • My counseling career has a path and direction--one that allows me to remain at home with my girls!
There are still prayers I am praying, but there is fuel in my prayer life, that will provide faith to know that God will answer even these!

  • I still pray for the salvation of my brothers and their families.
  • I pray for continued spiritual growth for my family.
  • I pray for direction for my children's education and wisdom in our new financial situation.
  • For God to bring our extended families closer together and closer to Him.
  • And I pray that I would be a light in people's darkness, a repairer of their breach, and a restorer of what has been broken.
Here's a family pic:

Tuesday, April 26, 2011

It's been a long time

I get a little more discouraged from blogging every time I read someone else's blog and it shows how much time elapsed between the current blog and the previous one. That timespan for me is becoming longer and longer. So, today, I determined that I would blog about my Easter of answered prayers. As I was uploading pictures from my camera, I decided I would build a bridge. Yes, you read that right. I amgoing to build a bridge first--a bridge of memories to span the time between my last blog post and my Easter of answered prayers.

  • Rebekah trekked out into the unknown --leaving the comfort of Eugene Christian School, to begin homeschooling. That is a story of it's own and I'm sure I'll spend some time blogging about the blessing of home-school.
  • Madeline has begun reading!
  • Isabelle has become her own fashion designer.
  • We have baked, crafted, and experimented to our heart's content!
  • The girls and I spent a few nights at my mom's in her motor home on the beautiful Oregon coast.
  • We've been on a family vacation to Arizona; road-tripping through California, visiting Great Grandma and Great Grandpa Sanders, staying with Oma and Opa, watching a Mariner's Spring Training game, and visiting the Grand Canyon.
  • Friends we have a plenty! We do gymnastics, library, tea parties, birthday parties, roller skating, and park hopping.
  • Chuck has gotten a promotion at work. He loves his job and we're so grateful for all of God's continued provisions!


That should just about bring you up to speed!